While statistics can, theoretically, be used to prove/disprove anything, smart people can usually see through the lies to focus on the numbers.
This is no surprise, much to the chagrin of 40 year-old guys who swear that they have the same chance at the hot 28-year-old as they did 10 years earlier.
Of course, when you flip the data around and look at what age men find women most physically appealing, you get an appalling answer. It’s shocking to see on paper, but not so surprising if you’ve ever talked to an actual man, read a men’s magazine or looked at porn intended for men.
Families that were happily married for years can suddenly realize that they cannot wind up looking at their lawful partner.
If you notice the same thing, switch to something really hot!
In his book, “Dataclysm,” he points out that who we want to be and who we really are can be two very different things.
Data reveals truths that we might not want to say out loud.
I know at this point his main goal is to not make a mess of his situation, but is working toward sucking it up, moving out and dealing with the mess.
He has stated he does not want to hurt my feelings intentionally, and through this I know a genuine relationship is not a possibility, and I am 100% okay with this, but I also know we have something very different together.
He went on to tell me he'd understand if I wanted something more than what he was giving me (emotionally).