Certainly not mine, and according to the women in my circles, not theirs either.
Effective dating profiles for men
No matter what your excuse is for not writing more, it's lame and a turn off.
I can't tell you how many women just don't respond to guys who just write one word.
According to a Pew Research poll released last October, 59 percent of Internet users think that online dating is a good way to meet people, while 36 percent of Americans who are single and actively looking for a partner, according to dating site Zoosk, are going online to find a match.
Now, you may think that having a face like Ryan Gosling and a bank account like Mark Zuckerberg is the best way to attract women online, but the truth is that even those guys would strike out with a crappy online dating profile.
For one thing, women tend to be a little bit less shallow than we are in that department, and, for another, the less you blindside a woman with surprises on the first date, the better. Trying to impress women by snapping a shot of yourself with that supermodel-hot coworker doesn’t work. Posing with animals accounts for a negative 53 percent rate of message replies. While men don’t like it when women mention that they are divorced or have kids, turns out women do.
The rate of message responses jumps by 52 percent at the mention of divorce or separation.
Stop taking half-naked photos of yourself in the bathroom mirror. And seeing a toilet, dirty shower, and you standing in a 4' x 6' box is mos def not a turn on. Your profile should not have a disclaimer about what you don't want.
Now, if you're laid out in a hot tub in a beautiful bathroom with a view of the ocean behind it, that's a different story. For goodness sake, what kind of lazy introduction is that? Taking pix of yourself on the way to being drunk off your ass is not inspiring. You might be God's gift to the party girl, but how are you with a real woman, outside the bar? Do you really want to see all the men I've been with before? If you find yourself listing the faults of all your exes, get counseling or coaching. And chances are, you've been the source of all that drama you claim you don't want. Please have photos that were taken at least within the past year or two.
----- As a coach, I encourage women to "know their brand" of femininity.