No one is a transgender, unless you’re not transgender, then you’re a-transgender.
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Maybe all ladies are subject to this online, but these are certainly the romantic misadventures of a post-op transwoman in her mid 30s.
So to the fellas out there who do wanna get with that hot trans gal, here’s some friendly advice from one who knows:• Do not call her a tran or a trans or a transgender.
Last year was a hectic one, recovering from gender confirmation surgery (while writing a show about it), running a theatre company, getting on the scene as a trans actress...
So much of my energy was spent working on and talking about becoming a woman in the world that I spent very little time actually being one.
Unfortunately, most other sites haven’t gotten up to speed.
Last month I was blocked from Tinder because a fair share of my matches reported me for being trans.Once this younger guy told me, “you’re pretty cool, most of the other girls charge.” — I’ll let you work out the problematics of that statement on your own.To be fair, not every woman with a penis is interested in being sexually objectified; I’m simply reflecting on a chapter of my personal journey in which I was.More dudes have a grasp of the transgender lexicon and know how to use trans terminology. I still have to sift through tons of hypersexed advances just to forge a conversation that may, one day, lead to a proper date.And I’ve lost count of the number of times I’ve been stood up or flaked on at the last minute.I was on OKCupid too, but after getting a death-threat from some dude I wrote the company a strongly worded email about their need to diversify gender options, and closed my account.