Honestly, I have never felt comfortable talking on the phone for long periods of time (even to close friends) so I prefer to jump straight from the internet communication to meeting.If you enjoy talking on the phone or prefer to do so before meeting someone, treat this step like you would the first date by asking for the phone number by the third email.
If you really hit it off on the phone (for example, did you talk for two hours without even realizing it? Regardless of the success of the first phone call, I still think the first date should come rapidly so don’t wait too long to move from phone conversations to a real meeting. Hint or specifically state that you can only be out until a certain time.
Most people will accept this or make a joke in an attempt to fish for more information (“What, have another hot date after ours? You can come up with a reason you can only be out for a set amount of time but most people will not press very hard to find out why.
It is personal preference on how long to wait but there are very few reasons to delay.
After all, contacting someone is just a pre-cursor to the first date.
A girl, a guy, and an after-school get together that could turn into something more.
Made in just two days, this short and silly but also surprisingly earnest little visual novel dating sim is weird in all the best possible ways.It’s not as if you hoping to “chat” with someone and end it there.You want to talk with them and if things go well meet them.Limiting the time of the first date is a safety precaution: if you end up on a nightmare of a date you’ve already established your “out”.If on the other hand the date is going excellent, suggest to your date that you extend it.A grown woman (or man if the lady is asking) can decide in a few weeks if she would like to meet you – someone looking for a pen pal should do so somewhere else.